So you’ve just been nominated the unofficial Hens Night planner. First off, congrats! Second, take a deep breath. While planning a hens night might sound like juggling glitter, guest lists, and champagne dreams, with the right checklist in hand, you’ll go from overwhelmed to organized in no time.
This guide will help you plan a celebration that’s memorable, fun, and completely tailored to the bride’s personality. Whether you’re leaning classy, cheeky, or a bit of both, we’ll walk you through all the essentials: themes, budgets, venues, food, games, entertainment, and more. By the end of this, you’ll have a hens night plan that’s foolproof, fabulous, and 100% bride-approved.
1. Set the Vibe: Classy, Cheeky, or Both?
Before you pick a venue or send an invite, figure out the vibe. The overall tone sets the direction for every decision after this point. Is your bride-to-be into sophisticated wine tastings or cheeky games and shirtless waiters? Or is she more of a hybrid party queen who wants a little elegance and a lot of energy?
This part is about personality. A hens night should feel like a celebration of the bride herself. So if she’s a laid-back, candlelit-dinner kind of girl, maybe steer clear of glitter cannons and body shots. On the flip side, if she’s always the first one on the dance floor, bring on the chaos.
Classy Ideas:
- Private dining experience at a rooftop bar with signature cocktails
- Spa day followed by a pamper party with robes and bubbly
- Paint and sip with prosecco and a canvas (bonus points if the model isn’t wearing much)
- Wine-tasting tour through the Yarra Valley or Mornington Peninsula
- Gourmet dinner with a custom menu and matching wine pairings
Cheeky Ideas:
- Topless waiters serving up cocktails and canapés
- Private strip show (think: tasteful and fun, not awkward)
- Life drawing session with bubbly and giggles
- Naughty scavenger hunt around the city or home setup
- DIY lingerie-making class or a burlesque dance workshop
If you’re stuck between the two vibes, why not combine them? Start the evening with a classy dinner or spa session, and then crank up the cheekiness with a private show or drinking game extravaganza. That’s a balance the bride will never forget — elegant enough for her Instagram stories, cheeky enough for the group chat.
Choosing a vibe early makes every other decision easier — from the invite design to the games, food, and even party favors. So gather the crew, brainstorm what would make the bride smile (or blush), and lock in your party tone from the start.
2. Build the Guest List & Send Invitations
This isn’t your average group chat invite. You want to create anticipation, especially if not all guests know each other.
Start by asking the bride who must absolutely be there. Keep in mind her family dynamics and friend circles. Then create a guest list that balances personalities. Too many introverts? Plan more bonding games. Too many extroverts? Expect chaos — in the best way.
Send digital invites with tools like Canva or Paperless Post. Include RSVP deadline, date, location, dress code, and activity hints. Even better: start a private Facebook group or WhatsApp thread to hype the event.
3. Lock in the Date & Choose a Venue
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Choose a date 4–6 weeks ahead of the wedding. Avoid planning too close to the big day to give the bride breathing room (and recovery time).
Venue Options:
- Airbnb for a weekend away
- Trendy rooftop bar
- Rented boat for a floating party
- Spa resort for all-day pampering
- Your own backyard with fairy lights and a hired entertainer
Always factor in group size, accessibility, parking, and the vibe. Want something private and flexible? Book a boat or Airbnb. Want to be in the city and feel fancy? Rooftop or cocktail lounge.
4. Plan the Budget
This is the make-or-break part. Everyone loves fun until the group chat goes silent when you mention money. Avoid drama by being upfront.
Estimate the total cost: venue, food, drinks, entertainment, transport, decorations, outfits, games, and gifts. Then divide fairly per person. Use budgeting apps like Splitwise or Google Sheets so everyone can see who paid for what.
Have a small buffer for surprise costs (yes, late-night pizza counts). Don’t forget the bride’s share should be covered by the group as a gift.
5. Book the Entertainment Early
Entertainment is the soul of your hens night. It’s what takes the evening from “cute dinner party” to “legendary night out.” Not only does it give your event a focal point, but it also sets the tone and keeps the energy alive well after the dinner plates are cleared. Without entertainment, you risk the dreaded hens night lull—where the playlist runs dry and everyone starts checking their phones.
Booking entertainment early gives you first dibs on top talent and avoids any last-minute stress. This is especially crucial if you’re celebrating during peak wedding season, where good entertainers are booked solid months in advance.
Top Entertainment Ideas:
- Topless waiters for cheeky fun and great service — they keep the champagne flowing and the smiles even bigger
- Private strip show with a custom routine for the bride — a show that’s tailored, tasteful, and totally unforgettable
- Life drawing class for a giggly but “cultured” twist — perfect for breaking the ice and doubling as a cheeky art session
- Cocktail-making class that turns into a mini party as guests shake and sip their creations
- Tarot reading or palmistry to add a mystical, surprise element to the night
- Burlesque performance or dance lesson for guests to feel empowered and sassy
- Comedy drag show for a night of high heels, hilarity, and unforgettable selfies
If your budget allows, consider combining two or more experiences — like starting with a cocktail class and ending with a surprise performance. This helps the night build in energy and ensures no one’s checking out before the final act.
Whatever you choose, make sure it reflects the bride’s personality. And once it’s booked, you can breathe easier knowing one of the biggest hens night highlights is locked in.
6. Organize Food & Drinks
You don’t want hangry hens. Whether you’re going gourmet or DIY grazing board, plan food to match the timeline.
Options:
- Catered dinner or tapas-style bar
- Pizza party at the Airbnb
- Potluck if you’re doing a budget night
- Bottomless brunch before the big night out
For drinks, plan a mix: bubbles, mocktails, and water (because we care about hangover prevention here). Add a cocktail station or hire a mixologist for extra flair.
7. Plan the Games & Fun Activities
Topless Waiter giving a guest a lap dance
Games are the glue of the night. They break the ice, fuel the laughter, and keep the vibe going in between drinks and dancing. A well-chosen set of games ensures guests connect, have fun, and avoid awkward downtime — especially when not everyone knows each other.
Don’t just wing it — come prepared with a few different types of games to suit varying comfort levels and personalities. Some brides might love bold dares and drinking challenges, while others prefer heartfelt trivia and creative fun.
Classic Game Ideas:
- Who Knows the Bride Best? — Create a list of fun and surprising questions to see who knows her inside out.
- Never Have I Ever (hens edition) — Keep it juicy, cheeky, and themed around love and relationships.
- Scavenger hunt with dares — Set up tasks around the venue or neighborhood, with a mix of hilarious and daring challenges.
- Bingo with wedding-related squares — Great for parties with mixed-age guests, and easy to personalize.
- DIY photo booth with props — Set up a backdrop and supply silly, themed props for unforgettable photo ops.
Add More Layers:
- Truth or Dare Jenga — Customize the blocks with prompts for laughs and surprises.
- Bride Roast or Toast — Let each guest share a short funny or sweet memory.
- Emoji Pictionary: Love Edition — Create puzzles using emojis to guess romantic movies or song titles.
- Pass the Parcel (with adult-themed prizes) — Because who says it’s just for kids?
Also consider creating a collaborative playlist ahead of time so everyone’s fave songs are included. Music is the invisible thread tying all moments together, from the welcome drinks to the final dance-off.
With the right mix of games, you’ll create shared memories, constant laughs, and a party that flows effortlessly from start to finish.
8. Outfits, Gifts, & Party Favors
Theme it up! Matching robes? All white but the bride in a bold color? Sashes and tiaras? It’s not cringe — it’s tradition. A visual theme helps bring unity to the group and adds to the aesthetic for all those inevitable Instagram stories. Plus, there’s something fun about having everyone arrive in coordinated outfits that scream, “we’re here to celebrate!”
Make sure the bride stands out. Whether that’s through a glittering sash, a flower crown, or a fun veil, she should feel extra special and totally adored.
Gift Bag Ideas:
- Mini champagne bottles (custom labeled if you’re feeling fancy)
- Hangover kits (hydration tabs, eye masks, mints, pain relief tablets)
- Cheeky games or truth cards
- Personalized keepsakes (keyrings, compact mirrors, or matching bracelets)
- Bride trivia cards for a mid-party quiz moment
These thoughtful extras make the night feel even more special. They also double as practical tools to keep the night smooth and fun, especially when the prosecco flows freely.
Add in a handwritten note or a photo of the group — it’s a low-cost touch that guests will genuinely appreciate.
9. Confirm Logistics & Delegate
Final week checklist:
- Confirm bookings (venue, entertainment, catering, transport)
- Recheck RSVP list and dietary requirements
- Assign roles (who’s bringing what, who handles music, who’s the timekeeper, who’s the emergency contact)
- Pre-order Ubers or arrange designated drivers if needed
- Pack a kit with essentials like safety pins, stain remover wipes, a phone charger, and extra snacks
Make sure the bride doesn’t have to lift a finger. This night is for her to feel cherished, stress-free, and totally spoiled. The best hens nights feel effortless — but behind the scenes, it’s usually because someone was smart enough to use a checklist like this one and delegate like a boss.
Have a go-to person ready to troubleshoot and handle the random things that always pop up — missing earrings, late guests, spilled wine. When everyone knows their role, you’re free to enjoy the night without playing Project Manager in heels.
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Final Thoughts
Planning a hens night is more than a checklist — it’s a chance to give your bride the send-off she deserves. With this guide, you’re well on your way to planning a night that’s unforgettable, unproblematic, and unbelievably fun.
Now go on, be the legend that pulled off the perfect hens night. Cheers!
